The Ultimate Gift Buying Guide For Your Partner
- jennysmithmattfeldt
- Oct 21, 2024
- 8 min read
Updated: Mar 6
Make Holiday Shopping Easy This Year, Send This Ultimate Gift Buying Guide To Your Partner Today!
BY JENNY SMITH MATTFELDT Published October 21, 2024
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My love language is gift giving, I can't help it, but we can definitely put it to good use. I adore picking out personalized gifts so today I present you with this Ultimate Gift Buying Guide. The earlier you get your Christmas gifts done the less pressure you'll have during the holiday season. Use it or send it to your partner, either way I want everybody getting creative gifts this year. My best tip for gift giving? Pay attention throughout the year, anytime they mention something they want make a note in your phone.
Shopping For Your Girl
You’ve got this. Buying for your partner isn’t as tough as it seems, it just takes a little bit of recon. Start by asking yourself, what is she really into? If it’s skincare, take a peek in her cabinet to see what brands she’s using. If her style leans more western, check out her belt or boots to get a feel for her vibe. Thinking about jewelry? A quick glance in her drawer will tell you if she’s more into gold or silver (trust me, this is very important.) Here's a pro tip, take a look at her Pinterest. It’s likely full of jewelry, travel destinations, and wishlist items. And if you're married with kids, for the love of God make sure she isn't the only one without a filled stocking Christmas morning.
For the beauty guru...
If she’s into hair, skin, or nails (basically all things beauty) consider getting her a gift certificate to her favorite salon or spa. It’s a simple, thoughtful gift that will feel luxurious to her. Even better, if you know her hair stylist or nail technician, they can help you pick out a couple of products while you're there to pair with the gift card for an extra touch. Pay attention to any products she’s mentioned recently. For skincare lovers, trendy red light tools and ice rollers are fun options.
These silk accessories make great stocking stuffers, and most brands offer beautiful gift sets filled with their top products like this Osea one. If she’s into wellness, a gua sha stone set could be perfect, or for someone who’s always doing face masks at home an at-home facial steamer is a winner.
Accessorize her...
Jewelry is a timeless gift for a reason, it’s a crowd pleaser. If you want something that looks luxe without the hefty price tag, check out Melinda Maria (the opals are stunning.) Their pieces are stylish, sophisticated, and surprisingly affordable.
Before buying any jewelry, take a good look at what she already owns (again, very important.) Is she more into gold or silver? Does she have a favorite stone, color, or birthstone? If she’s got a western vibe you cannot go wrong with turquoise or Navajo pearls.
And don’t forget to explore local artisans or jewelers in your area. Supporting local talent adds a personal, thoughtful touch to your gift. If you want to get her into your favorite team you can definitely do some gear but opt for neutral colors. Trust me neutral shades are very on trend right now and she’ll wear it much more often than something in bright colors.
For Mama...
If you’re shopping for mom, make sure the gift is something she’ll truly enjoy, not just something focused on the kids. This delicate initial necklace is a thoughtful choice, she can wear her child's initials or full name in a chic, dainty way. Another familly focused idea is a photo shoot gift certificate. Chances are, she follows some local photographers that she likes, or you might already know her favorite. It’s a gift she’ll treasure for years. For new moms, check out Milk Couture Co. They create stunning, sentimental jewelry using mementos like breast milk, pregnancy tests, or hospital bands. It’s a beautiful way to celebrate motherhood in a personal, meaningful way.
For the girl always on the go...
For the girl who's always on the go or has a passion for travel, a stylish weekender bag from Pendleton is a perfect gift, extra points if you pair it with some travel tickets.
Help her keep her skin glowing with a refreshing travel-sized toner, since flights and road trips can be tough on the skin. And don’t forget about some high-quality headphones. The new Beats x Kim K are a bit of a splurge, but they’re sleek, beautiful, and ideal for travel.
Gifts For The Guys
Guys can be notoriously tough to shop for, often because they don’t tend to have a long list of things they want, and if they do, they’ve likely already bought it for themselves. The key is to focus on his hobbies and those things he might not think to buy on his own, sometimes it’s just more fun when it comes from someone else. And don’t shy away from something heartfelt, guys appreciate the thought and love behind a meaningful gift just as much.
The sports guy...
If he’s into golf, pay attention to the brands he uses or ask his golf buddies for insight. If you’re not sure which club he’s eyeing, a gift certificate to a trusted pro shop is a safe bet. Personalized golf accessories like monogrammed towels, custom balls, or personalized club head covers are a thoughtful touch.
For the guy who loves variety, sport-specific subscription boxes (golf, running, etc.) offer a fun surprise of new gear every month. Fitness tech is another great option, whether it’s a Whoop band that tracks activity, recovery, and wellness, or smart gear like a jump rope that tracks his workout progress. If he's into winter sports, high-quality ski gloves, a helmet with Bluetooth speakers, or a day pass to a nearby resort are perfect.
And don’t overlook the impact of autographed memorabilia from his favorite player or team, it’s a gift that feels truly special. For a fun stocking stuffer, baseball cards are a nostalgic and easy win. And when in doubt, jerseys and hats from his favorite team are always a solid choice.
Practical but still cool...
Watches are always a classic choice, and a sleek cross or medal necklace adds a personal, meaningful touch to his style. I've purchased from Nixon watches before and the quality is insane for the prices, you can also easily engrave the back with a message. These leather wallets from Kings Loot are another instant classic, perfect for the minimalist guy, with a lifetime guarantee. They're a slim wallet that opens up to a money clip, some also include an Apple AirTag holder.
If you want to help elevate his wardrobe, consider upgrading his style with a few new pieces—think shirts, shoes, or a sharp jacket. And don’t forget the simple things! Guys love getting socks and underwear for Christmas. It’s practical, but they genuinely love it.
For his hobbies...
For the whiskey lover look into something special like the limited-edition Field of Dreams whiskey series, which was created by retired MLB players and highlights certain baseball players. You could also go for iconic whiskeys like Redbreast, Basil Hayden, or Angels Envy, pair them with some heavy whiskey glasses for a perfect gift.
If he's into grilling, a meat smoker or high-quality accessories are a gift for both of you. Go for fun stuff, seasonings, rubs, and unique sauces to elevate his BBQ game, high temp resistant gloves, grill baskets, and meat shredder claws to make it easy for him.
And for the car lover, vintage car advertisements are a classic gift. You can often find authentic ads for his favorite models on eBay or Etsy, and framing one makes for a timeless, sentimental piece of decor. Bonus tip, this is a great gift for dads.
Heartfelt...
A personalized photo book of your relationship, filled with photos, stories, and mementos, is a deeply meaningful gift that captures your journey together. It’s a beautiful way to relive your shared memories and celebrate your connection. If you have Costco membership you can get a significant discount through Shutterfly.
I have a theory that at their core men just want to feel seen and appreciated for their hard work. A simple, heartfelt handwritten card acknowledging how much you notice and appreciate how hard they're working, often without recognition, can be more impactful than you’d expect. It’s often the sincere gestures that mean the most.
For Either Of You
If you have time to get personal...
A personalized painted bottle can make for a truly unique and sentimental gift. You could opt for a simple design, like beautiful flowers that reflect their favorite colors or style, or go deeper with a heartfelt tribute, such as a portrait of a beloved family member or dog that has passed away. This thoughtful touch adds a personal narrative to the bottle, transforming it into a special keepsake that they can treasure forever.
Experiences you can do together...
If you’re looking to create memories together, consider booking a class you’ll both genuinely enjoy, whether it’s dance, cooking, or something unique like ring-making. Groupon often has amazing deals for these kinds of experiences in your area, making it easy to plan something fun without breaking the bank.
For the partner who loves an outing, experiences make for unforgettable gifts. A spa appointment (bonus points if it’s a couples massage) is always a winner.
Staycations are another great option. Book a night at a fancy hotel nearby, or keep it intimate with an at-home spa day by bringing massage therapists to you. You could also look into resorts that offer day spa passes with lunch, drinks, and pool access for a mini escape.
Expand on your partner's hobbies, something active or social, think about booking a whiskey tasting, indoor golf simulator (many come with full bars and food), or even tickets to an upcoming concert. And hot tip, Costco offers great deals on sports tickets near you, perfect for scoring some fun experiences (and great seats) at a discount.
For saving your memories...
For long lasting memories, a scratch-off world map is a fantastic gift for travel-lovers. It allows you to track your adventures and explore new destinations. You can display it on the wall as a reminder of all the places you've visited together.
Another great option is an Aura frame, which comes with an app that allows you to upload photos directly. To make it truly special, preload it with pictures that your partner will love.
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